Well its later in the day then I usually post I do have a reason not an excuse though. My best friend Kelly had surgery yesterday in San Francisco and her mom asked me if I wanted to ride to the city with her this morning. So we went it took us like an hour and a half the traffic was horrible the whole way there I mean truly bumper to bumper. She is in a lot of pain they had to redue her old gastric bypass then reattach it in another area also she had 2 hernias removed and they also took her appendix so they did some heavy surgery she was in for 7 hours. They are running tests to make sure that she has no blockages or leaks pray for the best and most speedy recovery please.
Now back to the subject at hand my proverbs 31 woman the reason that I titled my post with a newer woman is because I do realize that despite my best efforts its not gonna happen. Not saying that I am giving up no not at all its just that I know for me I am shooting just a little to high I know that in my own strength forget it but with God everything is possible. I also know that not only feeding my husband in the morning is not the only way to show my love for him. His love language is Words of Affirmation so showing him respect as well as affirming him will also be good for him. All men I believe crave that attention from their wives and some like my own husband vocalize it its too bad though that I have such a thick skull. But thank God that its not to late for that I haven't totally wrecked my marriage the love is still there between us both its just under a layer of hurt feelings and bruised not broken egos. So I am a newer and more improved woman just add God and everything is possible leave God out and total devastation. So I will try every day and remember to keep God as my pilot I know all will be better. Pray for me to be still and listen to God for all my needs.
Now back to the subject at hand my proverbs 31 woman the reason that I titled my post with a newer woman is because I do realize that despite my best efforts its not gonna happen. Not saying that I am giving up no not at all its just that I know for me I am shooting just a little to high I know that in my own strength forget it but with God everything is possible. I also know that not only feeding my husband in the morning is not the only way to show my love for him. His love language is Words of Affirmation so showing him respect as well as affirming him will also be good for him. All men I believe crave that attention from their wives and some like my own husband vocalize it its too bad though that I have such a thick skull. But thank God that its not to late for that I haven't totally wrecked my marriage the love is still there between us both its just under a layer of hurt feelings and bruised not broken egos. So I am a newer and more improved woman just add God and everything is possible leave God out and total devastation. So I will try every day and remember to keep God as my pilot I know all will be better. Pray for me to be still and listen to God for all my needs.
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Maybe you could still make him breakfast once a week. Also maybe try to at least once a day say something good or thank him for something. Just a thought.
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